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Over the last few weeks we've been
discussing PTSD, defining it and calling it out because the things
that frighten us the most are those that we don't understand. They
hide in the corner, like trolls, where we sneak peeks at them and
then dart our eyes away as soon as they look back, afraid that we
will be seen. When we step up and drag that troll out of the shadow
that it's been hiding in we're able to see that it's not the monster
we've created but simply another of life’s curve balls that, when
properly dealt with, can give us an opportunity to grow. Like a
seasoned batter when we see that curve ball coming we need to throw
our hip out and take advantage of it. Today I want to discuss what
science thinks they know about PTSD, how and why it happens.
The brain is a complex organ that we
don't fully understand and as a result the causes and effects of PTSD
are not well understood yet. What we do know is that some people will
get it and some will not, there is no one cause for PTSD, and,
finally, the time between the event causing it and the onset of
symptoms can vary greatly amongst individuals. Lets look at what we
do know more closely.
PTSD is a response to trauma, be it
war, violence, natural disaster or some other traumatic event but
some people who experience those circumstances will walk away
unscathed. Only an estimated 7% of the population will ever deal with
it, that's 5.2 million people but certainly not everyone. Why? Why
will some of us walk away without scars? The truth of the matter is
that no one knows for sure why some do and some don't. What we do
know for sure is that PTSD is a sign of strength not weakness, those
that have it are survivors not cowards.
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Don't let the troll lie to you.
There are theories on the complex set
of circumstances that cause one person to get PTSD and another to
skip it. What it comes down to is that we are individuals, with
individual reactions to stress, don't beat yourself up for being you.
It is the very thing that makes you an individual that may cause your
PTSD, embrace who you are and begin to heal.
So lets talk about the possible
individuality's that make us vulnerable. Although we aren't sure what
they are there are common threads that can be seen running amongst
us. A history of mental health issues such as depression and anxiety
can be a factor in how we react to stress and trauma. The life
experiences that led us to the moment we developed it can also be a
contributor. The intensity of the trauma and temperament of the
individual are known to relate directly to the likelihood of PTSD
developing. It is my opinion that these two work in tandem with each
other. In the end PTSD develops when we feel that we've lost control
of our destiny. Will everyone who experiences that loss of control
get PTSD? No. But PTSD is more likely in those circumstances.
It makes sense that our life
experiences contribute to our risk for PTSD, a life full of stress
will overflow at some point. It's our life that makes us who we are.
The reality that we must remember in this is that we are not helpless bystanders after the event we can choose to pursue healing and
wholeness. We can choose to embrace the trolls that are trying to
scare us and use them to grow.
The final point I'd like to address
here is the variety between the event that will ultimately cause PTSD
and the onset of PTSD itself. Like my previous points, this is
individual and not well understood by the medical community. For some
PTSD will never occur, for others it will occur immediately and there
is broad diversity in between those two extremes. Where ever you fall
in that continuum the important thing is that you admit to yourself
that you need help dealing with the nightmare that introduced you to
your troll and begin to banish it from your life.
Anyway we look at it PTSD is a troll.
If you experience a traumatic event you may develop it or not, you
may have the risk factors that lead to it and the trolls may take
over, temporarily. Those trolls may show themselves immediately or
lay in wait for years. What we do know for sure is that we don't have
to be victims, we can pull them out and burn them in the light of day
and the love of our family and friends and call them what they are,
lies that we no longer have to believe.
There is help and recovery from PTSD,
it doesn't have to be a life sentence. The brain may be a complex
organ that we don't fully understand but researchers are doing what
they do best and looking for answers. If you suspect you or a loved
one has PTSD then reach out for help. Don't let the trolls win, and,
please, don't hurt yourself. You are precious, even if you don't
believe it today. Don't listen to the trolls.
Twice a month I review books about PTSD to help you find the resources that will help you the best. Check out my other posts and see what you can find! I also write romance because we can all use a little love in our lives. Peruse my writings and see if you find something you love, then share it with your friends! I write to make others smile, let me know how I did!
Twice a month I review books about PTSD to help you find the resources that will help you the best. Check out my other posts and see what you can find! I also write romance because we can all use a little love in our lives. Peruse my writings and see if you find something you love, then share it with your friends! I write to make others smile, let me know how I did!
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